Monday, September 7, 2009

I Gotta Crush On You

Sorry about the trouble with the blog over the last week, but I think all the problems are fixed and we should be back in action.

So . . . on to my topic of the week.

As I mentioned in a previous post - I think - I have been watching a new show on TV. The show itself isn't really "new", its just new to me.

And I have a total crush on the male lead, Jeffrey Donovan, in this series. It's hard to say if I have a crush on the actor from the show, or the character he plays, Michael Westen. I think maybe it's a little of both.

Now, my husband finds this amusing. He points out to me, "Hey, your dream guy is taking his shirt off. You might wanna hurry up with the popcorn."

And I'm in the kitchen yelling, "Rewind it! Rewind it!"

He also happens to find the female lead, Gabrielle Anwar, very attractive, and it doesn't bother me a bit. Because I know I am committed to my hubby, and he's committed to me. We have a joke that if Reese Witherspoon shows up on our doorstep one day and wants to steal my husband away that he'll probably have to go, and the same goes for Ben Affleck and me, but you get the idea.

There isn't any jealousy or hurt feelings when we discuss having a crush on someone else, since we know it's not really an issue.

SO now I have a question for you all.

How do you feel about your spouse having a crush on someone else?

Feel free to leave comments on this topic, but just make sure to keep it respectful. I fully reserve the right to delete ugly or negative comments. :) Hey, my blog, my rules.



  1. Hee, hee! Thanks for the laugh today! My husband I do the same thing...I had a dream one night that my husband cheated on me with Jennifer Garner and I was perfectly fine with it and was even going around telling my friends about it! Hahaha! Not that I would be okay with that in real life, but it did give us a good laugh the next morning. I think more couples need have that sort of relationship where you can giggle with each other over things like that because you are confident in your love for each other. Good for you guys!!

  2. Glad to make you smile. And glad to know other couples do this. I think as long as it's someone so far outside the realm of possibility of ever meeting them (movie star, rock star, royalty, etc.) there's no problem with it.

    Now, if he told me he had a crush on the girl in the cubicle next to his, I might be a little more upset.

    But yeah, we usually just get a laugh out of it, and I'm even turning Hubby into a fan of the TV show, so it's a win-win situation as far as I'm concerned.